Alasan Enggan Menutup Aurat

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Jom kita tengok apakah alasan yang selalu digunakan wanita yang enggan menutup aurat apabila ditegur kesalahan mereka itu.

Dan apa jawapan yang mungkin sesuai untuk mereka.

1. Semua yang tutup aurat, kompom masuk syurga ke?
-Yang pasti, tak tutup aurat, kompom masuk neraka.

2. Tudung labuh pun macam baik sangat. Buat dosa jugak. Mengumpat orang.
-Bila Iblis tak mahu ikut perintah Allah untuk bersujud kepada Adam, dia menyalahkan perintah Allah itu. “Apahal pulak aku kena sujud, aku lebih baik dan mulia”. Samalah dengan tudung. Tudung pula yang disalahkan, ” pakai tudung tak mestinya baik..bla…bla…bla…”

3. Macamlah kau bagus sangat nak tegur aku. Kau dulu lagi jahat nak mampos.
-Tidak tersabit larangan dari Nabi untuk seseorang yang bahkan baru masuk Islam untuk pergi berdakwah kepada kaumnya. Maksudnya, dakwah itu tuntutan. Selagi kau Islam, dakwah tu wajib walaupun kau sendiri tak berapa betul. Sekurang-kurang dia insaf dan bertaubat sekarang.

4. Walau kami pakai seksi tapi hati kami baik.
-Adakah kau mendakwa diri kau mempunyai hati yang suci, iman yang tinggi dan kononnya ia sudah cukup menjamin maruah diri kau tanpa perlu menutup aurat?

5. Pakai jarang ke ketat ke, itu hak kami. Kalau tak suka jangan tengok.
-Adakah kau berani menjamin bahawa semua lelaki ajnabi mempunyai hati suci dan iman yang tinggi untuk menahan godaan syaitan serta nafsu yang membuak-buak?

6. Kami rasa apa yang kami pakai tak seksi. Terpulang kepada individu yang memandang kami.
-Seksi atau tidak, kau tetap berdosa walaupun hanya menayang sehelai rambut kau.

7. Walau kami tak bertudung, kami tetap sembahyang dan puasa.
-Apakah ibadat kau diterima? Kau yakin cuma dengan berpuasa sudah cukup untuk menjamin kau masuk syurga?

8. Sukahati kamilah nak pakai macam ni. Kami tak susahkan hidup orang lain.
-Kau sebenarnya dah susahkan bapa, abang, adik, suami serta orang lain dengan menarik mereka ke neraka bersama kau disebabkan mereka tidak menegur dan gagal mendidik kau.

9. Apa yang kami pakai, ini antara kami dengan Tuhan.
-Berani cakap di dunia, berani ke kau cakap macam tu depan Allah nanti? Lawan perintah Allah, Neraka tempatnya.

10. Kami pakai seksi macam ni, sebab ikut arahan photographer/pengarah filem untuk disesuaikan dalam scene. (ayat artis)
-Sanggup patuh arahan mereka daripada patuh suruhan Allah?

11. Bukan kami tak mahu menutup aurat, cuma masih belum sampai seru.
-Mati tidak mengenal usia. Tak takut ke mati dalam usia muda? Tak sempat nak bertaubat nanti.

12. Takkan nak buat perubahan secara drastik? Slow-slow la..
-Boleh ke cakap kat Malaikat Izrail nanti, tunggu kejap! Lepak la dulu. Jangan ambil lagi nyawa aku.

13. Tutup aurat tu bagus tapi kami tidak mahu hipokrit kerana tidak ikhlas melakukannya.
-Kalau begitu kau sebenarnya memang hipokrit kerana tidak ikhlas beragama Islam.

“Wahai wanita, setiap ciptaan tuhan yang berharga di dunia ini akan terlindung dan amat sukar untuk diperolehi. Di mana kamu boleh dapatkan permata? Tertanam jauh di perut bumi, tertudung dan dilindungi. Dimana kamu jumpa Mutiara? Terbenam jauh di dalam lautan, tertudung dan dilindungi oleh kulit kerang yang cantik. Di mana kamu cari emas? Terperosok di lapisan bumi tertudung dengan lapisan demi lapisan tanah dan batu. Tubuh kamu adalah suci malah lebih berharga daripada emas mahupun permata. Oleh itu kamu juga perlu bertudung dan melindungi diri kamu.”

Why Married Couples Don’t Have Sex

Dear Wife,

During the past year I have tried to make love to you 365 times. I have succeeded 36 times, which is an average of once every ten days. The following is a list of why I did not succeed more often:

•54 times the sheets were just cleaned
•17 times it was too late
•49 times you were too tired
•20 times it was too hot
•15 times you pretended to be sleep
•22 times you had a headache
•17 times you were afraid of waking the baby
•16 times you said you were too sore
•12 times it was the wrong time of the month
•19 times you had to get up early
•9 times you said weren't in the mood
•7 times you were sunburned
•6 times you were watching the late show
•5 times you didn't want to mess up your new hairdo
•3 times you said the neighbors would hear us
•9 times you said your mother would hear us

Of the 36 times I did succeed, the activity was not satisfactory because:

•6 times you just laid there
•8 times you reminded me there's a crack in the ceiling
•4 times you told me to hurry up and get it over with
•7 times I had to wake you and tell you I finished
•1 time I was afraid I had hurt you because I felt you move

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Dear Husband,

I think you have things a little confused. Here are the reasons you didn't get more than you did:

•5 times you came home drunk and tried to screw the cat
•36 times you did not come home at all
•21 times you didn't come with energy
•33 times you came too soon
•19 times you went soft before you got in
•38 times you worked too late
•10 times you got cramps in your toes
•29 times you had to get up early to play golf
•2 times you were in a fight and someone kicked you in the balls
•4 times you got it stuck in your zipper
•3 times you had a cold and your nose was running
•2 times you had a splinter in your finger
•20 times you lost the motion after thinking about it all day
•6 times you came in your pajamas while reading a dirty book
•98 times you were too busy watching TV

Of the times we did get together:

•The reason I laid still was because you missed and were screwing the sheets.
•I wasn't talking about the crack in the ceiling, what I said was, "Would you prefer me on my back or kneeling?"
•The time you felt me move was because you farted and I was trying to breathe.

45 Reasons for Life

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time some time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative of dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Reasons what goes around... comes around...

21 Suggestions to Live

1. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

2. Marry a man or woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

3. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

4. When you say, 'I love you ', mean it.

5. When you say, 'I'm sorry', look the person in the eye.

6. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

7. Believe in love at first sight

8. Never laugh at anyone's dream. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

9. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

10. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

11. Don't judge people by their relatives.

12. Talk slowly but think quickly.

13. When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'

14. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

15. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze

16. When you lose, don't lose the lesson!

17. Remember the three R's; respect for self, respect for others and responsibility for all your actions.

18. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

19. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

20. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

21. Spend some time alone.

Two Keys to Personal Power

Your Emotions Are Contagious

The first power you can develop is enthusiasm. The more excited you are about accomplishing something that is important to you, the more excited others will be about helping you to do it. The fact is that emotions are contagious. The more passion you have for your life and your activities, the more charisma you will possess, and the more cooperation you will gain from others. Every great man or woman has been totally committed to a noble cause and, as a result, has attracted the support and encouragement of others in many cases, thousands or millions of others.

The Key to Charisma

The second personality power that you can develop is expertise, or competence. The more knowledgeable you are perceived to be in your field, the more charisma you will have among those who respect and admire that knowledge because of the impact it can have on their lives. This is also the power of excellence, of being recognized by others as an outstanding performer in your field. Men and women who do their jobs extremely well and who are recognized for the quality of their work are those who naturally attract the help and support of others. They have charisma.

Going Through A Difficult Time

When we are going through a difficult time, we may hesitate to call even our best friends because we don’t want to burden them with our troubles. This can be especially true if we’ve been going through a series of challenges, and we’re starting to feel as if we sound like a broken record. It is important to remember that at times like these our friends sincerely want to be there for us whenever they can. We can always check with them to make sure it’s a good time for them before we start talking, and if it’s not a good time, we can call back at another time, or call another friend.

We know for ourselves that when we have a good friend, we don’t want them to suffer alone when we are just a phone call away. We want them to call us and share their sorrows with us, as well as their joys, because this is what sharing a life through friendship is about. It is at our lowest points that we really need to rely on our friends without worrying that we are a burden. If you are feeling self-conscious about having a tough time, you can bring this fact into the conversation by acknowledging it. Chances are your friend will reassure you that she is happy to be there for you. In fact, rather than feeling taxed, most of us feel better when we have helped a friend simply by listening empathically while they share their feelings.

Without our friends, we would be hard pressed to get through the tough times and celebrate the good ones. If we leave our friends out of our process when the going gets tough, our friendships can begin to feel shallow. On the other hand, when we include our friends in the full story of our life (the good, the bad and the ugly), we build authentic relationships in which we can be who we truly are. When we do this, we invite our friends to bring their whole selves to the relationship as well.

Tsunami, not easily detected

Tsunami (pronounced soo-nah-mee) comes from the Japanese words ‘tsu’ (harbour) and ‘nami’ (wave).

It is usually caused by underwater earthquakes and volcanic eruptions occurring less than 50 km beneath the sea floor, with a magnitude higher than 6.5 on the Richter scale.

Once a tsunami is generated, its energy is distributed through-out the water column, regardless of the ocean's depth.

A tsunami is made up of a series of very long waves. The waves travel outward from the source area, like the ripples caused by throwing a rock into a pond.

The deeper the water, the greater the speed of tsunami waves.

In the ocean, tsunami wave amplitude is usually less than one metre.

The indication of tsunami waves may be more than a hundred km away.

Therefore, passengers on boats will not feel or see the tsunami waves as they pass by underneath at high speeds.

For the same reason, tsunami waves cannot be seen or detected from the air.

Tsunami may reach a nearby shore in less than 10 minutes and there is not sufficient time for the local authorities to issue a warning. For people living near the coast, the shaking of the ground is a warning that a tsunami may be coming.

Worst Earthquakes since 1970

The huge earthquake yesterday off Indonesia, with a magnitude of 8.9 on the open Richter scale according to the US Geological Survey, is among the deadliest in recent years.

* Jan 5, 1970 - China - 15,621 killed in Yunnan in the southwest. Magnitude 7.8 on the Richter scale.

* May 11, 1974 - China - At least 1O,000 killed in the southwestern Sichuan and Yunnan provinces. Magnitude 7.1.

* December 1974 - Pakistan - More than 5,000 killed in the north.

* Feb 4, 1975 - China - At least 1,300 killed in Liaoning in the northeast. The town of Haicheng is evacuated in time. Magnitude 7.3.

* Aug 17, 1976 - Philippines - 3,700 killed when tsunami slams into southwest coast of Mindanao after a quake measuring 7.9 on the Richter scale.

* July 28, 1976 - China - The industrial town of Tangshan, 200km east of Beijing, was wiped off the map. Beijing releases an official toll for the first time, reporting 242,000 killed and 164,000 seriously injured, but Western experts say it was closer to 700,000 victims. Magnitude locally put at 7.8 on the Richter scale, but US geologists put it at 8.2.

* Aug 21, 1988 - India - About 1,000 killed on the border between India and Nepal. Magnitude 6.5.

* July 16, 1990 - Philippines - 1,200 killed when tremblor hits Baguio. Magnitude 7.8.

* Feb 1, 1991 - Afganistan and Pakistan - Almost 1,500 killed. Magnitude 6.8.

* Oct 20, 1991 - India - 768 killed in northern Uttar Pradesh. Magnitude 6.6.

* Sep 30, 1993 - India - 7,601 killed and 15,846 injured in the western Maharashtra state. Magnitude 6.3.

* Jan 17, 1995 - Japan - 6,424 killed and about 250,000 homes destroyed in Kobe. Magnitude 7.2. Japanese authorities say it is the country’s biggest earthquake in half a century.

* Sep 21, 1999 - Taiwan - Some 2,400 killed in central Taiwan. Magnitude 7.6.

* Jan 26, 2001 - India - More than 20,000 people killed and more than 160,000 injured in the western state of Gujarat, where the town of Bhuj was completely destroyed.

* March 25, 2002 - Afghanistan. At least 800 killed, 4,800 feared dead and thousands left homeless in Baghlan province in the foothills of the northern Hindu Kush mountain range.

Malaysian Tsunami Disaster Fund

There was no clue at all on the beaches of Penang or Langkawi or the seas off Kuala Muda that today would be any different from any other day. School holidays, the day after Christmas, fine weather — all the ingredients for a day out on the beach.

Then, just as tragedies always happen — unannounced — the giant tsunami which wreaked destruction from the shores of Indonesia, to Malaysia, Thailand, the Maldives, Sri Lanka and India, struck.

More than 82,517 people have died and the death toll is still climbing.
In Malaysia, 66 people are dead. In a country where such disasters are a rarity, the tourist island of Penang is reeling.

The New Straits Times and Berita Harian newspapers, joined by TV3 and 8TV have launched a Malaysian Tsunami Disaster Fund to assist Government efforts in rehabilitating and helping the thousands of victims affected by this tragedy.

All contributions will be handed over to the Federal Government Disaster Fund.

Contributions can be sent to the New Straits Times or Berita Harian at Balai Berita, 31, Jalan Riong, 59100 Kuala Lumpur and cheques should be made out to New Straits Times Press Berhad. On the reverse side of the cheque, please write "NST-BH Malaysian Tsunami Disaster Fund."

Give & Accept

A girl in love asked her boyfriend..

Girl (g): Tell me... who do you love most in this world?

Boy (b): You, of course!

(g): In your heart, what am I to you?

(b): The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in her eyes and said, You are my rib. In the Bible, it was said that God saw that Adam was lonely, during his sleep; God took one of Adam's rib and created Eve. Every man has been searching for his missing rib, only when you find the woman of your life; you'll no longer feel the lingering ache in your heart."

After their wedding, the couple had a sweet and happy life for a while.However, the youthful couple began to drift apart due to the busy schedule of life and the never-ending worries of daily problems... .their life became mundane... All the challenges posed by the harsh realities of life began to gnaw away their dreams and love for each other... The couple began to have more quarrels and each quarrel became more heated..

One day, after the quarrel, the girl ran out of the house... . At the opposite side of the road, she shouted, "You don't love me!"

The boy hated her childishness and out of impulse, retorted, "Maybe, it was a mistake for us to be together! You were never my missing rib!"

Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long while... . He regretted what he said but words spoken are like thrown away water, you can never take it back. With tears, she went home to pack her things and was determined in breaking-up.

Before she left the house, "If I'm really not your missing rib, please let me go... .. She continued, "It is less painful this way... let us go on our separate ways and search for our own partners... "

Five years went by... .

He never remarried but he had tried to find out about her life indirectly... She had left the country and back... . She had married a foreigner and divorced... .. He felt anguished that she never waited for him.

In the dark and lonely night, he lit his cigarette and felt the lingering ache in his heart. He couldn't bring himself to admit that he was missing her..

One day, they finally met... . At the airport, a place where there were many reunions and good-byes... . He was going away on a business trip.

She was standing there alone, with just the security door separating them. She smiled at him gently.

(b): How are you?

(g): I'm fine. How about you... Have you found your missing rib?

(b): No.

(g): I'll be flying to New York in the next flight.

(b): I'll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are back...You know my number... Nothing has changed. With a smile, she turned around and waved good-bye.. Good-bye... ..

One week later, he heard of her death. She had perished in New York. In the event that shocked the world..

Midnight... .. Once again, he lit his cigarette... .. And like before, he felt the lingering ache in his heart... . He finally knew, she was the missing rib that he had carelessly broken... .

Sometimes, people say things out of moments of fury. Most often than not the outcome could be disastrous and detrimental. We vent our frustrations 99% at our loved ones. And even though we know that we ought to "think twice and act wisely", it's often easier said than done.

Things happen each day, many of which are beyond our control. Let us treasure every moment and everyone in our lives. Tomorrow may never come; give and accept what you have today.

Woman

Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy....... So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree. Share this with other women who are good apples, even those who have already been picked!

Cinta Sejati

Salleh dan Salleha sedang duduk bersama di taman kampus tanpa melakukan apapun,hanya memandang langit sementara sahabat-sahabat mereka yang lain sedang asyik bercanda ria dengan kekasih masing-masing.

Salleha : " Ahhh!! aku bosan. Aku berharap aku juga mempunyai pacar yang dapat bersama berbagi waktu denganku."

Salleh : " Nampaknya cuma tinggal kita berdua saja yang masih single mingle, masih tidak mempunyai pasangan sekarang."

( keduanya mengeluh dan berdiam beberapa saat )

Salleha : " Aku ada idea best nie. Kita adakan permainan jom? "

Salleh : "Errr? Permainan apa? "

Salleha : "Ermmmmm... sonang tu bah. Apa kata kau jadi pacarku dan aku jadi pacarmu tapi hanya untuk 100 hari saja..... camnerr okay tak? "

Salleh : " Baiklah... lagi pong aku juga belum ada agenda apa-apa untuk beberapa bulan nie. "

Salleha : " Lerr... cam tak ikhlas jerr.... nak tak nak??... semangat sikitlah! Hari ini akan jadi hari pertama kita bercouple. Kita ke mana sekarang? "

Salleh : " Camnerr kalau kita nengok wayang ajerr? Kalau tak salah citerr PGL tengah now showing nie..... Ajebb ngan Adha cakap citerr nyerr best tau..dia orang kasi 4 bintang lagi. "

Salleha : "OK sett!!!.... Jom kita pergi sekarang. Pastu kita gi karaoke yerr... agak-agak kalau kita ajak sama MasPenn ngan Lili tu dia nak tak??? "

Salleh : "Boleh juga..." ( mereka berdua pun pergi menonton,berkaraoke dan Salleh menghantar Salleha pulang selepas itu )

Hari ke 2 :
Salleh dan Salleha menghabiskan waktu untuk berbual dan bercanda di kafe, suasana kafe yang remang-remang dengan alunan muzik yang syahdu membawa hati mereka pada situasi yang romantis. Sebelum pulang Salleh membeli sebuah kalung perak yang berloketkan sebiji bintang untuk Salleha.

Hari ke 3 :
Mereka pergi ke Mall membeli-belah untuk mencari hadiah buat Lady Rye,seorang sahabat Salleh. Setelah lelah berkeliling dalam Mall, mereka memutuskan untuk membeli sebuah jam tangan. Setelah itu mereka beristirihat dan duduk di foodcourt,makan sepotong kuih dan satu gelas jus berdua dan mulai berpegangan tangan untuk pertama kalinya.

Hari ke 7 :
Bermain bowling dengan teman-teman Salleh. Tangan Salleha terasa sakit kerana tidak pernah bermain bowling sebelumnya. Salleh memicit-micit tangan Salleha dengan lembut.

Hari ke 25 :
Salleh mengajak Salleha makan malam di Danga Bay. Bulan sudah menampakkan diri,langit yang cerah menghamparkan ribuan bintang dalam pelukannya.Mereka duduk menunggu makanan, sambil menikmati suara desir angin berpadu dengan suara gelombang bergulung di pantai. Sekali lagi Salleha memandang langit,dan melihat bintang jatuh ( shooting stars ). Dia mengucapkan suatu permintaan dalam hatinya.

Hari ke 41 :
Salleh menyambut ulang tahun. Salleha membuatkan kek ulang tahun untuk Salleh. Bukan kek buatannya yang pertama, tetapi kasih sayang yang mulai timbul dalam hatinya membuat kek buatannya itu menjadi yang terbaik. Salleh terharu menerima kek itu, dan dia mengucapkan suatu harapan saat meniup lilin ulang tahunnya.

Hari ke 67 :
Salleh dan Salleha menghabiskan waktu di Sunway Lagoon. Berjalan sama di The World's Longest Pedestrian Suspension Bridge, sambil menikmati pemandangan. Naik The Viking, makan eskrim bersama, dan mengunjungi kiosk permainan. Salleh menghadiahkan sebuah boneka teddy bear besar bermata biru untuk Salleha,dan Salleha membelikan sebuah MP3 thumbdrive player untuk Salleh.

Hari ke 72 :
Pergi ke Suntec City di Temasik. Melihat meriahnya pamiran dari negeri Cina. Salleha mengajak Salleh untuk mengunjungi salah satu kiosk "Fortune Telling".Sang peramal hanya mengatakan "Hargai waktumu bersamanya mulai sekarang" kemudian peramal itu menitiskan airmata.

P.S :Jangan pulak besok-besok gi jumpa tukang telek pulak...tang ini cuma buat sedapkan jalan citerr jerr...

Hari ke 84 :
Salleh mengusulkan agar mereka berlibur ke pantai. Pantai Desaru kelihatan sepi kerana bukannya waktu percutian bagi orang lain. Mereka melepaskan sandal dan berjalan sepanjang pantai sambil berpegangan tangan, merasakan lembutnya pasir dan dinginnya air laut menghempas kaki mereka. Matahari terbenam,dan mereka berpelukan seakan tidak ingin berpisah lagi.

P.S Lagi : Tang peluk-peluk nie pong... korang jangan pulak nanti serang jebat pasai buat adengan peluk-peluk... sama jugak macam yang kat atas tu...sajerr nak panjangkan citerr...

Hari ke 99 :
Salleh memutuskan agar mereka menjalani hari ini dengan bersantai sambil berputar- putar tanpa arah tujuan keliling bandar dan akhirnya duduk di sebuah taman.

1520hrs
Salleha : " Aku haus. Rest kejap okay. "

Salleh : " Tunggu disini, aku beli minuman dulu. Aye nak minum "Green Tea"; You nak minum apa? "

Salleha : " Biar I saja yang beli. Aye kan penat putar stering keliling bandar hari ini. Sekejap yerr "

Salleh mengangguk. Kakinya memang suka simpul biawak atau cramp kalau lama memandu.

1530hrs
Salleh sudah menunggu selama 10 minit and Salleha masih belum kembali juga. Tiba-tiba seseorang yang tidak dikenali berlari menghampiri Salleh dengan wajah panik.

Salleh : " Ada apa Cik? "

Orang asing : " Ada seorang perempuan dilanggar kereta. Rasa-rasanya macam temanmu tadi "

Salleh segera berlari bersama orang itu. Disana, di atas jalan yang panas terjemur terik matahari siang, tergeletak tubuh Salleha bersimbah darah, masih memegang botol minumannya. Salleh segera menelefon ambulan dan langsung mengikut Salleha ke rumah sakit bersama-sama ambulan. Selama 8 jam 10 minit, Salleh tidak senang duduk diruang menunggu bilik kecemasan. Sekejap berdiri... sekejap mundar-mandir.. fikiran Salleh bercelaru. Seorang doktor keluar dengan wajah penuh penyesalan.

2353hrs
Doktor Zuhana : " Maaf, tetapi kami sudah cuba melakukan yang terbaik. Dia masih bernafas sekarang tapi Yang Maha Kuasa akan segera menjemput. Kami menjumpai surat ini dalam kocek bajunya. "

Doktor Zuhana memberikan sekeping surat yang terkena percikan darah kepada Salleh dan Salleh segera masuk ke dalam bilik rawatan untuk melihat Salleha. Wajahnya pucat tetapi kelihatan damai. Salleh duduk disisi pembaringan Salleha dan menggenggam tangan Salleha dengan erat. Untuk pertama kali dalam hidupnya Salleh merasakan torehan luka yang sangat dalam di hatinya. Butiran airmata mengalir dari kedua belah matanya. Kemudian dia mulai membaca surat yang telah ditulis Salleha untuknya.

Sahabatku Salleh...
Ke 100 hari kita sudah hampir berakhir. Aku menikmati hari-hari yang telah ku lalui bersamamu. Walaupun kadang-kadang kau buat derk dan tidak dapat ku membuat telahan, tetapi semua perkara itu telah membawa kebahagiaan dalam hidupku. Aku sudah menyedari bahawa kau adalah jejaka yang berharga dalam hidupku. Aku menyesal tidak pernah berusaha untuk mengenalmu lebih dalam lagi sebelumnya. Sekarang aku tidak meminta apa-apa, hanya berharap kita dapat memperpanjang hari-hari kebersamaan kita. Sama seperti yang ku ucapkan pada bintang jatuh malam( shooting stars ) itu di pantai, Aku ingin kau menjadi cinta sejati dalam hidupku. Aku ingin menjadi kekasihmu selamanya dan berharap kau juga akan berada disisiku seumur hidupku. Salleh, aku sangat sayang padamu.

2358hrs
Salleh : " Salleha, apakah kau tahu harapan apa yang ku ucapkan dalam hati tika meniup lilin ulang tahunku? Aku pun berdoa agar Tuhan mengizinkan kita bersama-sama selamanya. Leha, kau tidak boleh meninggalkan aku! Hari yang kita lalui baru berjumlah 99 hari! Kau harus bangun dan kita akan melalui puluhan ribu hari bersama-sama! Aku juga sayang padamu, Salleha. Jangan tinggalkan aku,Ayang...jangan biarkan aku kesepian!, Aku sayang kamu...!"

Jam dinding berdentang 12 kali....jantung Salleha berhenti berdetak. Hari itu adalah hari ke 100...

Moralnya :
Luahkan perasaanmu pada orang yang kau sayangi sebelum terlambat. Kau tidak akan pernah tahu apa yang akan terjadi esok. Kau tidak akan pernah tahu siapa yang akan meninggalkanmu dan tidak akan pernah kembali lagi.

True love doesn't always have a happy ending, because true love never ends.... Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are,while your reputation is merely what others think you are

Panduan Memilih Sahabat

Cara-cara memilih sahabat:

1) Pilih orang yang mempunyai minat yang sama seperti anda supaya anda mempunyai persamaan,tetapi jangan mengetepikan orang yang langsung tidak mempunyai persamaan dengan anda, bersikap terbuka baik untuk anda.

2) Ingatlah pada satu pedoman penting iaitu berlaku baik terhadap orang lain sebagaimana anda suka diperlakukan. Sekiranya anda menghormati orang lain,orang lain akan menghormati anda juga.

3) Sedarlah bahawa tiada siapa yang sempurna, setiap orang mempunyai sifat-sifat aneh dan kecacatan, dan menerima kecacatan antara satu sama lain adalah kunci persahabatan yang baik.

4) Hargai pendapat satu sama lain.

5) Sedarlah bahawa kawan yang rapat sekalipun tidak dapat bersama 24 jam. Bina minat-minat yang lain dan jangan cemburu apabila kawan anda mempunyai minat-minat yang lain juga.

6) Komunikasi sangat penting, kawan anda tidak boleh membaca fikiran anda. Sekiranya ada sesuatu yang menjejaskan persahabatan anda, beritahulah.

7) Jangan biarkan faktor luaran seperti tekanan (stress) menjejaskan persahabatan anda. Kawan yang baik akan membenarkan anda melepaskan perasaan kepada mereka, tetapi jangan hanya mempergunakan mereka untuk melepaskan perasaan ... dan sebagai balasan anda sepatutnya bersedia untuk mendengar luahan perasaan mereka pula.

8) Belajar daripada satu sama lain.

9) Jangan mengata di belakang kawan anda.

10) Pilih kata-kata anda dengan bijaksana kerana anda tidak boleh menariknya kembali.

Jagalah Mulut Anda!

Berkata seorang lelaki gila di stesen bas Taiping "wahai saudara-saudaraku semua Tahukah kamu bahawa setiap perempuan itu ke mana perginya membawa dua mulut? "Ya..setiap yang bernama perempuan itu memiliki dua mulut" Bagai takut kepada yang tidak mengerti, rangkap itu diulanginya lagi, "Mulut satu!"

Katanya "Mulut satu itu ada diatas,yang perlu dijaga kata tuturnya,supaya sopan dan lembut dengan gaya seorang perempuan dengan akhlak seorang perempuan.Tahukah saudara-saudaraku! Di mana mulut kedua seorang perempuan itu berada? orang ramai bagai ketakutan dan berlalu dari situ. Namun masih ada juga yg berminat utk menyaksikan gelagatnya. saudara-saudaraku!

Katanya dsambil menyelak-nyelak akhbar yang lusuh kekuningan di tangan katanya:

Berita satu!
Seorang bayi perempuan ditinggalkan di stesen bas Klang tali pusatnya masih belum jatuh

Berita dua!
seorang bayi dijumpai mati di dalam tandas awam di Ipoh

Berita Tiga!
Seorang bayi lelaki ditinggalkan di hadapan sebuah rumah banglo mengalami beberapa kesan gigitan serangga di Kuantan,Pahang

"Tahukah saudara-saudaraku kenapa mereka membuang bayi-bayi itu? tahukah kenapa? laungannya semakin galak itulah bila perempuan tidak menjaga mulut keduanya yang dibawah itu maka itulah yang terjadi bila ada yang belum...tertunduk malu dan berlalu tapi aku terpaku di situ,terpaku dengan puisinya

Jagalah mulut yang dibawah itu wahai perempuan supaya tidak lahir zuriat haram! kerana melahirkan zuria-zuriat haramlah perempuan-perempuan itu jadi sifat kebinatangan lebih dari binatang!
Perempuan...apalah salah bayimu itu!

Jagalah mulutmu yang dibawah itu wahai perempuan,
Makhluk lelaki itu jangan kau percaya sangat,
Biasalah...sebelum dapat janjinya menggunung.
Lihatlah bayi-bayi yang tak berdosa ini dicampak bagai bangkai seekor kucing lihatlah perempuan!

Lihatlah! dari itu jagalah mulut keduamu itu serah saja kepada yang berhak untuk itu!
Lelaki ini memang jahanam!Jahanam!Jahanam!

Aku pun lelaki.aku pernah jadi lelaki jahanam Itu raungnya dalam tangisan yang mengila

Ha...Ha...Ha...ketawanya lantang lantas berlalu. Demikianlah sebuah puisi gila dari seorang lelaki gila.

Lelaki & Wanita

1.Kecantikan seorang wanita ialah terletak sejauh mana ia dapat menahan (menjaga) malunya, sementara kegagahan seorang lelaki ialah terletak sejauh mana ia dapat menahan (menjaga) marahnya.

2.Orang yang membujang adalah orang yang belum menemukan penghibur duka dan dia baru memperolehinya dengan berkahwin.

3.Suami adalah orang yang mencari kebahagiaan hidup dengan menghilangkan sebahagian kemerdekaannya.

4.Wanita menghadapi banyak permasalahan sebahagian diatasi dengan berkahwin dan sebahagian yang lain diatasi setelah dia masuk ke liang kubur.

5.Mata yang paling indah tetapi juga harus diwaspadai adalah mata kaum wanita.

6.Jangan menyalahkan perasaan isteri anda kerana perasaannya yang terbaik ialah ketika ia menerima anda sebagai suami.

7.Perawan tua ialah wanita yang kehilangan kesempatan menyusahkan seorang lelaki.

8.Yang diinginkan seorang gadis dari dunia ini hanyalah seorang suami, dan apabila ia sudah memperolehinya, ia menginginkan segala-galanya.

9.Wanita bisa memaafkan suatu pengkhianatan suaminya, tetapi dia tidak bisa melupakannya.

10.Kecantikan wanita tidak bererti apa-apa dibandingkan dengan kemuliaan akhlak dan perilakunya.

11.Sebelum khawin, wanita hafal seluruh jawapan dan sesudah khawin, ia hafal seluruh pertanyaan.

12.Barangsiapa mengawini wanita kerana hartanya, maka dia telah menjual kemerdekaannya.

13.Wanita adalah bintang dan pelita bagi lelaki. Tanpa pelita, lelaki bermalam dalam kegelapan.

14.Wanita lebih cepat daripada lelaki dalam menangis dan dalam mengingatkan peristiwa yang menyebabkan dia menangis.

15.Wanita tertawa bila ia mampu dan menangis apabila ia menginginkan sesuatu.

16.Pudarlah kebahagiaan seorang wanita jika ia tidak mampu menjadikan suaminya teman yang termulia.

17.Wanita sangat berlebihan dalam mencintai dan membenci, dan tidak mengenal pertengahannya.

18.Wanita selalu tergolong manusia halus dan lembut sampai saat dia berkhawin.

19.Tidak mungkin seorang lelaki hidup bahagia tanpa didampingi oleh isteri yang mulia.

20.Wanita hidup untuk berbahagia dengan cinta, sementara lelaki mencintai untuk hidup berbahagia.

21.Kebijaksanaan wanita terletak di dalam hatinya.

22.Seorang wanita yang bijaksana menambahkan gula pada kalimatnya setiap kali berbicara denga suaminya, dan mengurangi garam pada ucapan suaminya.

23.Cincin perkhawinan adalah cincin termahal di dunia, sebab mengharuskan pemberinya mengingatkan harganya setiap bulan tanpa henti.

24.Sesungguhnya tidak ada wanita yang sangat cantik, yang ada ialah kaum lelaki yang sangat lemah bila berhadapan dengan kecantikan.

25.Bagi lelaki, yang terakhir kali mati ialah jantungnya dan bagi wanita adalah lidahnya.

26.Wanita tidak diciptakan untuk dikagumi semua lelaki tetapi sebagai sumber kebahagiaan seorang suami.

27.Pada waktu bertunang, lelaki banyak berbicara dan perempuan mendengarkan. Pada saat perkhawinan, perempuan berbicara dan pengantin lelaki mendengarkan. Sesudah perkawinan, suami dan isteri banyak berbicara dan para jiran tetangga mendengarkan.

28.Setiap wanita mempunyai dua mata. Adapun wanita yang cemburu berlebihan mempunyai tiga mata. Satu di sebelah kanan, satu di sebelah kiri dan yang ketiga diarahkan kepada suami.

29.Wanita pada umumnya takut akan tiga hal tikus, munculnya uban dan wanita-wanita cantik yang menjadi saingannya.

30.Isteri yang bersikap jujur dan setia kepada suami meringankan setengah beban kehidupan suaminya.

31.Seorang wanita menghadapi kesulitan apabila ia berada di antara lelaki yang dicintainya dan yang mencintainya.

Bagaimana Cara Makan, Begitulah Cintanya

"Ish! Pelahapnya dia makan! Cancel nak buat pak we!! Tengoklah tu makanan tepi bibir pun tak dilapnya. Eiii....teruknya."

Perhatikan gaya teman kamu makan! Masing-masing ada gaya yang tersendiri. Ada yang makan penuh kesopanan, ada yang makan sambil bercakap bahkan sambil tersembur pun ada! Ha...jangan tak tahu. Gaya makan si dia di meja makan juga ada memberikan gambaran sikap sebenar si dia. Apa kata kita selidik. Perhatikanlah bagaimana gaya si dia makan tapi jangan pula sampai dia terperasan. Barulah kamu boleh menilai peribadinya.

Makan dengan tenang

Wah! Skima habis nampaknya. Suapannya penuh hati-hati. Tapi sikapnya itu buat kamu bosan. Geram pun ada gak. Mana taknya, dia seolah-olah lebih 'minat' dengan makanan itu berbanding dengan diri kamu sendiri. Namun di sebalik sikap dingin si dia itu menggambarkan bahawa dia seorang yang tegas dalam membuat keputusan dan usah diragui soal kesetiaannya. Kamu tetap satu di hatinya! Cewah!

Asyik belek makanan

Hai! Dia lebih banyak pandang makanan daripada wajah kamu! Macamlah makan tu sedap sangat. Perhatikan cara dia makan. Cukup teliti. Misalnya kalau makan ikan, tulang-tulang ikan itu siap disusun di tepi pinggan. Elok saja! Usah gusar, itu menandakan dia amat prihatin dalam tiap apa juga yang dilakukan. Selain itu, tentu saja dia memang serius dengan kamu. So, usahlah diragukan cintanya!

Serius ketika makan

Kiranya gaya makan dia okey saja. Tak terlalu cepat atau lambat sangat. Sesekali dia akan berbual tapi taklah kerap sangat. Bermakna kamu masih lagi 'wujud' di depannya. Namun ketika mengunyah, matanya asyik perhatikan kamu hingga kadangkala kamu nak makan pun segan. Alahai! Bertuahnya badan! Nampak sangat dia teramat sayang terhadap kamu dan tak mahu kamu 'hilang' sesaat pun dari pandangannya. Jaga-jaga, kang nanti tercekik tulang pulak! Sikap pelindung jelas ditunjukkan terhadap diri kamu. Berbahagialah yek!

Makan sambil borak

Syok sangat berbual dengan kamu sampaikan nasi di dalam pinggan pun tak luak. Itu menggambarkan si dia seorang yang periang dan susah nak tengok dia marah. Tapi, merajuk tu adalah. Selain itu, dia juga gemar berterus-terang kerana baginya itu adalah antara perkara utama untuk memastikan sesebuah perhubungan itu berjaya. Tapi awas, jangan buat dia marah. 'Angin satu badan'lah pulak!

Makan sambil kerap tengok jam

Tiap kali makan, selalu nak cepat sedangkan masa masih panjang dan tak ada perkara yang nak 'dikejar'. Jangan salah faham, bukan dia ada date dengan gadis/jejaka lain, cuma itu dah memang tabiat dia. Itu semua menunjukkan bahawa dia sebenarnya amat menitikberatkan soal masa. Tengok saja tiap kali berjanji. Mesti 'on time' dia sampai. Sebab tu dia tak suka seseorang yang lembap.

Makan sambil merungut

Ada saja yang tak kena. Makanan tak sedaplah, kurang garamlah dan macam macam lagi. Kadangkala tu, sakit juga hati kamu dibuatnya. Alah! Biasalah tu, dia kan jenis yang suka berterus-terang. Apa saja yang dirasakan tak puas hati akan diluahkan walaupun kadangkala ia merimaskan kamu.Tapi di sebalik sikapnya itu, ia menunjukkan bahawa dia teramat mengambil berat terhadap diri kamu. Cuma awas, dia tu kuat cemburu. Jadi, jangan gatal-gatal nak menjeling jejaka/gadis di meja sebelah walaupun sekadar untuk cuci mata. Nahas kamu nanti!

Men & Women Of Chemistry

Element Name: MAN
Symbol: XY
Atomic Weight: (180 +/- 50)

Physical properties: Solid at room temperature, but gets bent out of shape easily. Fairly dense and sometimes flaky. Difficult to find a pure sample. Due to rust, aging samples are unable to conduct electricity as easily as young samples.

Chemical properties: Attempts to bond with WO any chance it can get. Also tends to form strong bonds with itself. Becomes explosive when mixed with Kd (Element: Child) for prolonged period of time. Neutralize by dousing with alcohol.

Usage: None known. Possibly good methane source. Good samples are able to produce large quantities on command.

Caution: In the absence of WO, this element rapidly decomposes and begins to smell.

Element Name: WOMAN
Symbol: WO
Atomic Weight: (don't even go there!)

Physical properties: Generally round in form. Boils at nothing and may freeze any time. Melts whenever treated properly. Very bitter if not used well.

Chemical properties: Very active. Often unstable. Possesses strong affinity for gold, silver, platinum, and precious stones. Violent when left alone. Able to absorb great amounts of exotic food. Turns slightly green when placed next to a better specimen.

Usage: Highly ornamental. An extremely good catalyst for dispersion of wealth. Probably the most powerful income reducing agent known.

Caution: Highly explosive in inexperienced hands.

Why Women Are Better Than Men

*When women see a "caution" sign, they carefully avoid it, while men assume that it was meant for someone else, and come home with every bone broken.

*Women characterize the first date, by seeing how you act and eat. Men check to see if you can name at least one football, basketball ot basebll star.

*When a women is pregnant and craves pickle and mustard sandwhiches, the man groans and wines until they remind him that you are the one having the baby HERE! But when the man craves a six pack, she diligently goes to the store and returns five hours later with a romantic movie.

*Women can stand to be wrong, while men make excuses about "misunderstanding" and some how it is always the women's fault.

*When a man attends a concert, he whoops, yells, shrieks and snorts, while he gobbles down anything he can get his hands on. While women enjoy the show while dancing and socializing with friends.

*When women stay in the bathroom for over 45 seconds, men assume that something is wrong, and walk in to examine.

*Women understand about privacy, and don't come in until 2 hours have passed.

*Women understand that babies do not come from a stork.

*When in a hospital, women will share all emotions. While men, being the "tough" guys that they are, will "stay calm" until someone finally notices that he has wet the chair he is sitting in.

*Women love to help. Men feel you want commitment when you ask to do the dishes...

The Rules

1. The female always makes the rules.
2. The rules can change without notice.
3. Males can't know the rules.
4. If the female suspects that the male knows all the rules, she must immediately change some of the rules.
5. The female never bears the blame for being wrong.
6. If the female is wrong, it is because of a flagrant misunderstanding which was a direct result of something that the male did or said which was wrong.
7. If rule 6 applies, the male must apologize for causing the misunderstanding.
8. The female can change her mind.
9. The male must never change his mind without the consent of the female.
10. The female has every right to be angry or upset at any time.
11. The male must always remain calm unless the female wants him to be angry or upset.
12. The female must never let the male know whether or not she wants him to be angry or upset.
13. If the female has PMS, there are no rules.
14. The male cannot diagnose PMS.

The Rules (by Her)

1. The Female always makes THE RULES.
2. THE RULES are subject to change without notice.
3. No Male can possible know all THE RULES.
4. If the Female suspects the Male knows all THE RULES, she must immediately change some of THE RULES.
5. The Female is never wrong.
6. If it appears the Female is wrong, it is because of a flagrant misunderstanding caused by something the Male did or said wrong.
7. If Rule #6 applies, the Male must apologize immediately for causing the misunderstanding.
8. The Female can change her mind at any time.
9. The Male must never change his mind without the express, written consent of The Female.
10. The Female has every right to be angry or upset at any time.
11. The Male must remain calm at all times, unless the Female wants him to be angry or upset.
12. The Female must, under no circumstances, let the Male know whether she wants him to be angry or upset.
13. The Male is expected to read the mind of the Female at all times.
14. At all times, what is important is what the Female meant, not what she said.
15. If the Male doesn't abide by THE RULES, it is because he can't take the heat, lacks backbone, and is a wimp.
16. If the Female has PMS, all THE RULES are null and void and the Male must cater to her every whim.
17. Any attempt to document THE RULES could result in bodily harm.
18. If the Male, at any time, believes he is right, he must refer to Rule #5.

50 Fakta Ttg Lelaki & Perempuan

1. Rata² wanita tidur lebih lama 1 jam drpd lelaki pd waktu malam.

2. Sperma lelaki yg menentukan jenis kelamin bayi.

3. Bayi perempuan cenderung lebih cepat berjalan & berbicara, bayi lelaki 2 bulan lebih lambat.

4. Lebih byk kehamilan & kelahiran dgn komplikasi saat mengandung bayi lelaki drpd bayi perempuan.

5. Wanita mempunyai sel darah 1 juta lebih sedikit drpd lelaki & rata² berat otak lelaki + 1.4 kg, wanita kurang dr itu.

6. Pergantian kelamin lebih byk dilakukan lelaki.

7. Basikal lelaki mempunyai setang/palang di tgh basikal.

8. Wanita sgt menimbang² masalah & perubahan sehari². (cth:- penggunaan alat baru)

9. Pd tulang punggung manusia, wanita lebih lebar & besar, mengikuti perkembangan tulang panggul utk proses persalinan. Lebih byk timbunan lemak pd punggung, lelaki lebih byk timbunan lemak pd perut.

10. Wanita kurang mampu menahan dingin disebabkan permukaan kulit yg lebih besar, sehingga lebih suka pd suhu ruang yg lebih hangat.

11. Lelaki lebih suka bicara langsung sesuai tujuannya, sementara pembicaraan wanita terputus² dgn keraguan & perasaan. Disebabkan serabut penghubung antara belahan otak kanan (intuisi) & kiri (logika) lebih sedikit pd wanita. Sehingga ekspresi perasaan lebih mudah terjadi pd wanita.

12. Wanita lebih baik indera penciumannya disebabkan tingginya hormon estrogen yg diketahui sbg aktivator reseptor penciuman.

13. Wanita mempunyai 75 % lebih byk kelenjar keringat/peluh (yg menghasilkan bau badan) drpd lelaki.

14. Kemampuan indera lelaki utk mengecap rasa masam, manis & masin lebih rendah drpd wanita.

15. Hubungan yg rapat/intim diluar pernikahan, lelaki dua kali lebih byk.

16. Lebih dr dua kali pd wanita cenderung homoseksual pd usia 45 tahun drpd lelaki.

17. Pd saat usia tua wanita mengalami kerontokan rambut, pd usia yg sama sebagian besar lelaki mengalami kebotakan. Kebotakan disebabkan produksi berlebihan dr hormon androgen (hormon laki²).

18. Mata lelaki rata-rata lebih besar drpd wanita, mata wanita lebih byk bahagian yg berwarna putih.

19. Lebih byk wanita menggunakan kacamata & lensa kontak, antara usia 16-44 tahun.

20. Secara umum hidung lelaki lebih besar drpd wanita. Sedangkan wanita rata² mempunyai bibir lebih besar dibanding lelaki.

21. Rata² pendengaran lelaki menurun sekitar usia 32, wanita usia 37.

22. Lebih byk wanita dapat bernyanyi tanpa suara sumbang dibanding lelaki. Pita suara lelaki lebih panjang & saluran napasnya 30% lebih besar.

23. Bg lelaki, jika berkomunikasi dgn sesama jenis saling berjauhan dgn ada ruang antara di antara mereka & bereaksi negatif jika seseorg masuk di antara ruang jarak pembicaraan. Lelaki lebih mudah tertekan pd kerumunan yg membatasi ruang geraknya.

24. Berpapasan dgn wanita pd jalanan ramai, lelaki menghadapkan tubuhnya menghadap wanita yg dilewatinya. Wanita cenderung membalikkan badan, sering secara tidak sedar menempatkan tangan di depan badannya untuk melindungi dada.

25. Wanita memproduk dua juta sel telur selama hidupnya mulai usia 4 bulan ketika masih dikandung, lelaki terus memproduksi sperma hingga usia tua.

26. Kekuatan meramas tangan lelaki dua kali lebih kuat drpd wanita.

27. Kira² 48% lelaki mendengkur ketika tidur, hanya 22% pd wanita.

28. Wanita rata² 153 detik berada di toilet, lelaki 113 detik.

29. Hubungan keluarga yg baik meninggikan kualiti hidup: 62% wanita, 49% lelaki.

30. Satu berbanding empat, wanita dibanding lelaki yg berbicara gagap.

31. 30% wanita secara sexual lebih aktif pd saat bulan purnama.

32. Lebih byk wanita menggunakan cincin kawin.

33. Ketika terjadi ketidaksesuaian/tidak bertegur-sapa antara sesama jenis, lelaki langsung menemui, wanita menjauhi.

34. Rata² lelaki membaca lebih lama drpd wanita, tetapi lebih byk dua kali wanita yg membaca drpd lelaki.

35. Lebih dr dua kali ganda wanita yg hidup sendiri dibanding lelaki stlh usia 65 tahun.

36. Memilih warna Merah atau Biru: lelaki lebih byk memilih merah, wanita warna biru.

37. Semua rekod Olimpik untuk kecepatan berenang, lari, lompat tinggi, lompat jauh dipegang atlet lelaki.

38. Wanita lebih byk menggunakan kata ganti diri 'Saya' dibanding lelaki.

39. Lelaki lebih baik dlm membaca peta & dalam keahlian ukur ruang. lelaki cenderung lebih mudah melakukan dua pekerjaan (abstrak & logika) pd waktu bersamaan.

40. Dlm 99% pereputan tulang terjadi pd wanita setelah menopause, stlh hormon estrogen menurun. Tetapi wanita lebih sedikit mengalami pengerasan pembuluh darah, karena estrogen menjaga pembuluh darah lebih lentur & menolong mencegah naiknya kholestrerol.

41. Penelitian di Amerika, wanita menggunakan waktu hampir dua kali lebih byk utk berbelanja dibanding lelaki.

42. Perkawinan yg memuaskan lebih byk terjadi pd lelaki dgn usia lebih tua, dibanding pd wanita pd usia sama.

43. Lebih byk wanita yg menyatakan dirinya sakit kronik drpd lelaki.

44. Penelitan di Australia, tiga kali ganda lelaki dibanding wanita yg meninggal krn kanser paru² & penyakit jantung.

45. Tetapi 2,446 wanita berbanding 16 lelaki yg meninggal krn kanser payudara pd tahun 1990.

46. Dlm status perkawinan, lelaki meningkatkan usia harapan hidup. Tetapi bg wanita pula, usia harapan hidup lebih tinggi jika hidup sendiri.

47. Penelitian di Australia, pembunuhan dilakukan 86% oleh lelaki, 95% penghuni penjara adalah lelaki.

48. Penelitian di England, anak lelaki lebih mudah dibohongi/dipedaya drpd anak perempuan.

49. Wanita lebih berani, lebih dr 55% wanita memeriksakan giginya secara rutin dibanding 40% pd lelaki.

50. Wanita secara umum yg lebih menentukan corak & gaya pakaian yg dipakai.