i had few regrets (you're lying if you said you never regret on anything) coz i always had to ask others opinion before doing anything instead of just do it. i know it's good but because certain people said it's bad, i didn't do it & now whenever i think about it, i thought "how i wish i just ignore them & do it." if i can go back to the past (which is definitely impossible), i definitely will just do what i think is the best & right for me & i think my life would be totally different. no, i'm not unhappy with my life now. i just feel that i can definitely lead a better life if i never follow those people advices... not all advices are good anyway! i learn it the hard way...
but then past is still past no matter what. we do not live in the fantasy world... there isn't a fairy godmother or trapped genie in a bottle who will grant us every wishes. nop, not gonna happen right? so if you want to do something, then do it now instead of regretting later coz you never even try to do it. do it now; today, not tomorrow or next week, month, year, etc coz if you don't start now, you never gonna do it maybe even when it was actually too late to cry about...
"A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing." - George Bernard Shaw
"When you make a mistake, don't look back at it long. Take the reason of the thing into your mind and then look forward. Mistakes are lessons of wisdom. The past cannot be changed. The future is yet in your power." - Hugh White
“Experience is the name every one gives to their mistakes.” - Oscar Wilde
“Do not brood over your past mistakes and failures as this will only fill your mind with grief, regret and depression. Do not repeat them in the future.” - Swami Sivananda
lessons of the day :-
1. just do it! right here, right now (take the first action)
2. don't wait till it's too late (regret of doing nothing)
3. if it's really a mistake; then learn from it (gain experiences from those mistakes)
p/s :- these lessons are for me. they may not suits you at all...
...banyak benda I regret..tp tak guna nak regret, so I lupakan je semua regrets tu.
ReplyDelete...at the end..I camgini jele.
lg byk kita kenang, lg byk kali kita menyesal x sudah² tp menangis air mata darah skali pun, masa tu tetap xkan kembali. so now it's our choice to start anew or making the same old mistakes...
ReplyDeletemotivation comes in many ways... kalo xde org nak bg motivation, then search for it. but then byk mana pun motivasi yg org beri pd kita or yg dah kita dgr tp kita sendiri xde rasa motivate jugak, then xde sape leh tlg kita lg dah... kita kena motivate diri kita sendiri!
donnolah..no motibasi sekarang...everyday down..pagi ada motivasi then tengahari mula down lak, tak tahu la apa nak jadi..
ReplyDeletekalo still x bermotivate skrg nie, bila dah ada smgt nak buat, then buat le masa tu. yelah ada masa kita down kan? bila dah xde rasa down dah, buat le apa yg kita plan nak buat tu. xkan dok plan je tp xde usaha pun nak buat apa yg dah diplankan tu, kan?
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