Sunday, May 27, 2012

Friendship Vs Relationship

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم & السلام عليكم
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The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend. I have no wealth to bestow on him. If he knows that I am happy in loving him, he will want no other reward. Is not friendship divine in this? - Henry David Thoreau

There's one sad truth in life I've found
While journeying east and west -
The only folks we really wound
Are those we love the best.
We flatter those we scarcely know,
We please the fleeting guest,
And deal full many a thoughtless blow
To those who love us best. - Ella Wheeler Wilcox

i've lost count of how many times you've thrown me away and took me back in your life... the reasons are just pretty stupid but i still forgive you coz we're best friend for years. i never understand your reasons for doing this to me for so many times and now again? for what? it's just weird...

to me friendship is friendship, relationship is relationship. i don't like mixing it together. my hubby is my world. so i told him everything with whom i spend my time especially when he's not around. i wanted to share everything with him. i wanted him to know he means everything to me now and forever, Insya-Allah. but if you yourself lied to your hubby/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend, that's not my fault. lying just makes our pure friendship seems fishy in the eyes of your couple... so why did you lie? do you have feelings for me? if not, then what? i just don't get it!

maybe you had your own reasons but i still think it's just not right... when you're married, you don't hide things behind your spouse's back. don't try to ruin your own marriage with a foolish lie... he/she deserves to know the truth!

my dear friend, kau kawan baik aku dunia akhirat. itulah kenyataannya sampai bila², Insya-Allah. kalo pasangan kau salah faham dengan persahabatan kita, pasti ada sesuatu yang kau sorokkan dari dia. tolonglah jangan sorokkan apa² darinya dan jangan cuba memutar belitkan cerita. hargailah dia lebih dari segalanya...

p/s :- jangan nak pandai² buat kesimpulan kalo tak tau hujung pangkal... kalo tak puas hati, sila bersemuka dengan aku face to face. sekian!


  1. You are so right! That took a lot of crazy to run up on stage in the middle of a show. I’m sure it was a little less scary considering who security was.

  2. Wow, I hope you and your friend resolve the issue of trust that's currently plaguing your friendship. I hope their intention was not to wound you, even it was or seems so subconsciously, and I hope that you will both be able to get past this.


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